I don’t know why I needed to know her name, but it didn’t find long to discover it. A few details and suddenly this woman who had been dehumanized by someone who was once her friend had her name and history restored to her. She was whole again. I know a fake name was likely meant to “protect” the privacy of her family, but it just seemed like a way to further diminish her.
“Leah” deserved more respect than Amanda Lauren gave her.
She was more than her disease and she deserves to be remembered for more than her mental illness. She was a person. She was also a daughter, sister, friend, writer, actress, yoga instructor, and graduate of Tisch at NYU. She was loved.
This is how we should remember her.
In the obituary, her family asked that donations be made to the Stella Adler Studio of Acting at NYU-Tisch. If you want to do so and can afford to do so, then I think that would be an awesome way to remember this young woman.