Daily Archives: June 2, 2014


harrehshipsdontlie: cosmo-kramer-the-assman: ok my main problem with hannah montana is like how DID HER FRIENDS NOT KNOW IT WAS HER IM PRETTY SURE IF I HAD A BLONDE WIG ON MY FRIENDS WOULD HIT ME AND TELL ME I LOOK LIKE A DICK AND NOT BE LIKE OH LOOK A POP SENSATION #NO MY BIGGEST PROBLEM IS HER DAD#EVERYONE KNEW THAT HANNAH MONTANA’S DAD WAS ROBBIE RAY #HOW DID THEY NOT #MAKE THE CONNECTION #HIS DISGUISE IS EVEN WORSE THAN MILEY’S IT’S A FUCKING MOUSTACHE via Tumblr






“I’m a trans guy with chronic and episodic migraines. I’ve decided to save for top surgery and try to come out a bit more because it really, really hurts, the way that most people see me, and I’m mostly a “want it? then go get it” kind of person. I’m really afraid that if my conservative religious parents find out I’m trans they’ll refuse me health insurance (I live on my own but I’m on their plan) and then I can’t take care of chronic issues because they don’t like my trans issues. My therapist isn’t really experienced with trans people, so they keep suggesting that I might be feeling I’m trans because I have some issues with some females in my life, which is true, but I also have a lot of issues with the males in my life, as well. I’m just really uncomfortable so much of the time and I manage my illness in varieties of “ok” but there’s so many other things that just make me want to curl up in a ball and cry. But I also need to work and be there for my best friend.” – Anonymous via Tumblr






artistimistic: ♂ =  I am a boy who has a crush on you ♀ = I am a girl who has a crush on you () = I am a nonbinary/genderqueer person who has a crush on you * = just delete your tumblr already æ = Post a picture of yourself $ = You’re awesome # = I love your blog @ = You’re beautiful + = i hate you. % = You’re ugly <3 = I want to fuck you & = I wish we were close ~ = I wish we were friends in real life ? = I relate to a lot of the same things you go through  ! = You inspire me Please via Tumblr http://ift.tt/1ubaXNg

Of all the things I have ever been accused of, gaslighting isn’t one of them. It’s probably because I don’t gaslight.1 In order to gaslight, one must lie about or distort the events that happened. Taking a screen capture of words a person actually says and showing that to them is not gaslighting. If I were distorting what happened to show her she was wrong, then I would be gaslighting. But showing her exactly what happened is not gaslighting. Suggesting that I was gaslighting might actually be gaslighting on her part, but I wouldn’t tell her that. Mainly because I refuse to talk to her anymore. I made the mistake of trying to respond after what happened yesterday and some of her remarks towards me that she made, so she got all huffy.2 I loved that she told me I needed help. She’s right. I am. I do need help. I get as much help as I can receive. My needing help doesn’t change the facts about what happened. It doesn’t change how she is being hypocritical. It doesn’t change anything that she has done. And I really don’t appreciate her bringing up my mental health as a way to pretend like she is completely free of blame. I definitely feel like my decision to placate her the other night was a pretty smart one to make. And accusing me of hating men? Can someone please tell me where I’ve said that I hate men? Or that I support any form of terrorism against any group at all? No. Why? The proof doesn’t exist because I’ve never felt that way about any group at all. But, like I told her, if it makes her feel better to accuse me of things, then she can accuse me of things. That just ends up saying more about her than it does about me anyway. Ugh. Annoying people are annoying, guys. I know I can be annoying, too. Still, the stubbornness and denial that she seems to have is just exhausting for me. I think Dadada would enjoy her tactics, though. His theory in life was that it was only wrong if you got caught. I think he would appreciate the idea of if you get caught, deny, deny, deny. It takes chutzpah. It also makes me really glad I’m now blocking her.3 And I’m still getting responses from her friends. I’m trying to be nice to them, which is getting more and more difficult. I may have to just start blocking any of them that try to talk to me. That may be the smartest (and least dramatic) thing to do. To gaslight is to manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity. It involves providing them with false or distorted information. ↩Thus, I have updated the gallery from yesterday. ↩I just have to keep myself from checking to see if she’s still saying shit about me. ↩

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