DO NOT LET OTHERS MAKE YOU FEEL AS THOUGH YOU ARE WORTHLESS. DO NOT LET THEM MAKE YOU UNHAPPY, DO NOT LET THEM BULLY, ABUSE AND PUSH YOU AROUND. DO NOT LET PEOPLE DESTROY YOUR DREAMS, AND RUIN YOUR LIFE
Life is short, too short in fact to live it in anger and fear, I know from experience. I was angry for 16 years because I was abused for 13 of those years, and bullied for 15 of them. I’ve been called every word in the book, and been punched, kicked, had my head bashed in…I’ve even had my arm lit on fire. I’ve been through heel in some respects and yet I’m still here, I’m still kicking and living life to the fullest. You want to know my secret? Letting it go.
You can do 2 things in life, you can either live your life unhappily and in anger and fear, insecurity and frustration…or you can live it happily, to the fullest and without a care in the world. I went with Option 2. I have been happy for the past 6 days.
First, learn to be happy with who you are. Look past what people hate/dislike about you and find out what you like about yourself, and treasure those things. Sometimes it’s the shit people hate that we love the most about ourselves, and those are called flaws and quirks. They are what makes us who we are. They define us as human beings. We all have them, and those who are willing to admit they have them are far better off then those who choose to deny it. The truth hurts sometimes, but we all have to face the facts that we are not perfect. NOBODY IS PERFECT!!!
Second, learn to let go. Honestly if you let this shit bottle up inside of you to the point where you get angry, or self-harm or worse..you’re not scoring yourself any brownie points. You’re just fucking yourself over in the end. All that animosity and anger do is make you feel like shit, and it leads to depression and outburst of violence, insecurities, and behaviour that doesn’t make sense, like sleeping around or doing drugs because the make you feel better. They kill the pain. Or sex is the closest thing to loving someone or feeling important to someone you can get. The drugs fry your mind, and you feel at ease…until it wears off, you crash and fucking burn…and in the end…YOU ALWAYS FEEL LIKE SHIT!!!
LEARN TO LET GO, forgive and forget, because the sooner you can do that the sooner your happiness will come. Learn from your mistakes and realize that those mistakes helped shape you into who you are today. Realize that life is worth living in happiness, to fullest for as long as you can. Life is too fucking short to let it all go to waste.