Daily Archives: August 21, 2009

You think of yourself as having the only problems, as being the only one who is disappointed. But just look around you and you will see lots of people as disappointed as you are. Tennessee Williams (via 29oct08)

stayfrosty: ofmiceandpens: titleuntitled: lickystickypickyme: A lot has been said about how to prevent rape. Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn’t have long hair and women shouldn’t wear short skirts. Women shouldn’t leave drinks unattended. Fuck, they shouldn’t dare to get drunk at all. Instead of that bullshit, how about: If a woman is drunk, don’t rape her. If a woman is walking alone at night, don’t rape her. If a women is drugged and unconscious, don’t rape her. If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don’t rape her. If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don’t rape her. If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you’re still hung up on, don’t rape her. If a woman is asleep in her bed, don’t rape her. If a woman is asleep in your bed, don’t rape her. If a woman is doing her laundry, don’t rape her. If a woman is in a coma, don’t rape her. If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don’t rape her. If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don’t rape her.If a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don’t rape her. If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don’t rape her. If your step-daughter is watching TV, don’t rape her. If you break into a house and find a woman there, don’t rape her. If your friend thinks it’s okay to rape someone, tell him it’s not, and that he’s not your friend. If your “friend” tells you he raped someone, report him to the police. If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there’s an unconscious woman upstairs and it’s your turn, don’t rape her, call the police and tell the guy he’s a rapist. Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it’s not okay to rape someone. Don’t tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape. Don’t imply that she could have avoided it if she’d only done/not done x. Don’t imply that it’s in any way her fault. Don’t let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he “got some” with the drunk girl. Note: This goes for any gendered rape, male on female or female on male or female on female or FTM on MTF or non gendered to dual gendered and so on and so forth…. -author unknown source

Only rapists can prevent rape:

stayfrosty: pierz: but instead, i have blue. I have grey eyes, but often I wish they were blue. I wish my eyes were all one color sometimes.  Instead I have 1/4 of my left eye green, and 1/4 of my right eye is brown, with the rest being blue.  I don’t mind the green because its always been there, but the brown is from an injury, so I’m not as proud of it.

i sometimes wish i had hazel eyes.

[youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDGEadci_hc?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0&w=500&h=375] “I want to wear a dress on the show.” – Alexander Skarsgard (Source: http://www.youtube.com/)

haleyislegend: Not too long ago I had dinner with some old friends. There were so many instances where a couple of them talked SO much crap on one of out other friends. I kept my mouth shut. Even though this person isn’t the most likable, she is very sweet. And for the record, not once have I ever heard her say a bad thing about anyone, even the “friends” that constantly talk shit about her ad her marriage. She probably has no idea they do though, of course, because they’re great actors. I just don’t understand why they would make so much effort to appear to be her friends when they talk her down SO much when she’s not around. I remember when I used to be close to these people. I thought they were the best friends I could ever have. It’s been years ago and they were still talking crap about her. Back then I joined them but now that I’ve given the girl a chance I regret ever saying anything about her. It just makes me sick that after all these years she is still the topic of discussion when they want to make fun of someone. And the way they talk to me is the same way they talk to her. It makes me wonder if they talk about me behind my back too. As a matter of fact, I don’t even wonder, I know. Some people can just be cruel.  I hate how people can be so bent on picking apart people, whether its to their face or behind their back, but that’s just the way some people are.  I guess they think that because it was okay when they were younger that it’s okay now that they’re older.

People make me sick